Thursday, August 27, 2009

So Long and Thanks for all the Fish (Fun, Food, Frenzy, F(th)rills)

Our wonderful five weeks in Dallas have sadly come to an end. Jerry and Aaron had what was probably their best summer (so far) and have made new friends with newly discovered/re-discovered cousins.

Jerry is so smitten by the Big D that every day, he professes his wish to live there: "I don't see why we have to go back to Hong Kong" or "We have to live HERE!" or "Hong Kong is too small (the whole place, not just our apartment) or "Dad, you will have to buy a house here in Dallas, one that is bigger that Dai Kau Kung's (and one which happens to be on list as one of the 100 most expensive houses in Dallas!)" etc, etc. One time, he went so far as to suggest that we can all move to Dallas, that his dad will not have to work because his Po Po and Gung Gung can go to work! Jerry is forever the problem-solver.

This was Jerry's second visit to Dallas and he had met everyone before, although he's forgotten most of those meetings. For Aaron, it was a first meeting in many cases, yet, both boys developed lasting bonds with everyone.

Lucas, a.k.a. Lukies has become a firm favorite with both brothers since we saw him and his mom, Ann, almost every day of our stay. Summer Camp was in session mostly at Aunt Cindy's in Beaver Creek and sometimes at Marblewood which is Astor's address. We saw Nicole Bew Jeh almost as many days and we are grateful for all the love, hugs and kisses from her (even the occasional scolding, which have helped Jerry on his way to maturity). Cousins Vivian, Sarah and Victor were fabulous baby-sitters and all three have left lasting and loving impressions in our hearts. Aaron, would ask for everyone in turn, e.g.: "Sarah, where's Sarah? Come here, Sarah." or "Where's Victor? Where's Vivian? Where's Kau Fu? Where's Lukies?" etc, etc.

Eric Bew Gor was an influence in his special way and he had to put up with Jerry more than anyone else.

Andrew Kau Fu was the best and no words can describe his contribution during our visit. We are thankful for such a loving yet authoritative figure.

Our plan is to make a visit to Dallas at least once a year. It is not only to give the boys something to do during summertime, but also a great opportunity to help them maintain lasting relationships with their cousins. There is a great deal to learn from and love about everyone.